The workplace trend #QuietQuitting is when you do the bare minimum at your job instead of going above and beyond. In the dating world, experts are calling it “quiet dumping,” and they say it’s the slow killer in relationships and a tell-tale sign that the end is near.

“Under the Covers” host Danica Daniel doesn’t totally agree. “If you’re married for 15, 20 years, things will never be the way that they were during the honeymoon phase,” she says. Instead, look out for this red flag — lack of communication. To fight the “quiet” killer, couples should “get loud.”